Category: Relationships

5 Little laws

It occurred to me that in marriage, there were laws beneath that had passed unnoticed; and laws that would never have made sense (in theory) because we have to live through them to comprehend…Here’s to both. The little law of flight landing This little law states that you can never land so smoothly that you…

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Complete…

The me (now) would concur. I would say that before you know who you wholly are outside of someone else, you will never find any form of completeness from another...

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Perfectly imperfect matches…

The experiences here may be personal, but the truths are universal. For the girls waiting on their men, the girlfriends trying to keep their men, the married women tolerating their men, the divorcees who got fed up with their men; and the hopelessly enamored who can’t get enough of their men… For our men, the…

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The coulda boyfriend

...Between the meet and  happily ever after, we swing between coulda, woulda and  shoulda circumstances. Am I sure? Can I stand this? Who does that? What kind of girls has he been dating? He is so clueless it hurts

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Diaries…of social media

...it has a green patch. The shade that I wear when I scroll down newsfeed and wonder how people can have a life so perfect. I walk down the insta-stories in this shade, exploring streets of others who have perfected the art of creating glamour in gloom. Of masters and mistresses who know no life struggles

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Diaries…of relationships

Hello brilliant readers! Today, we shall talk about those questions which do not have answers and leave you doubting your brilliance. When parents, grandparents and the larger society gang up to ask you why you are not getting married. You have the job, the house, the car, and you are a nice person. But then,…

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Because I miss you…

  I miss our chats – about business, about Pinterest, about life and you telling me how I’m the best thing it ever brought your way. I miss your embrace – the long warm hugs that felt like home. They made me feel safe and like everything was gonna be okay. I miss our fitness…

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Cold Flames

Boyfriend? Soulmate? Fiancé? Husband maybe? Not really, I said a man! Those other labels can wait. Perplexed I ask, “So what are you working on? Been three years now Nina, are you comfortable hanging in there… Rewind. Ten or so minutes ago, Nina was at the verge of breaking down. He had stood her up,…

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